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Youth Group Ministry

Saint Anselm Youth Ministry is an engaging, authentic, joyful approach to forming middle school and high school teens in the Catholic faith. We strive to build a community of empowered young people through service-oriented, social, and spiritual activities that are connected to the parish and the community at large. Stay up to date with our many events by following us on Instagram (@anselm_yg) and liking us on Facebook (St. Anselm Youth Ministry)!

For detailed information about any of the following programs, please contact Youth Minister Courtney Rockamann at 314.878.2120 ext. 18 or youth@stanselmstl.org.


  • Life Teen Leadership Conference
  • Pro-Life March
  • Steubenville

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The CORE team is an amazing group of adults who are passionate about leading teens to meet, know, love, and serve Christ. CORE members are adults, ages 19-99, who will be an important role model in teenagers’ lives. The approach to ministry should be rooted in service, commitment, and dedication to the Church and the teenagers you serve. CORE Members are role models to all our teens, knowing that how you live and act makes a strong impression on teens. The CORE team works with our Youth Minister, Courtney Rockamann, to plan weekly STAY nights, annual retreats, social events, and much more. Let us know if you're interested in joining the team!


All highschool students are invited to join us on Wednesdays from 7:00-9:00 p.m. in the Youth Room for STAY. Each week we break open topics of current issues in the lives of teenagers in an interactive yet relaxed setting so we can grow in relationship with our God and each other. The night always includes opportunity for fellowship, prayer, and praise and worship.

West County XLT

This is a gathering of six area parishes, geared to the youth but open to everyone, held on the fourth Wednesday of the month (September-May) in our parish center. Guest speakers begin the evening with a brief talk on various topics followed by time for Adoration with praise and worship music led by a full band and an opportunity to receive Reconciliation. Every XLT closes with Benediction and a social (snacks included!).

Junior High Trivia Night

Each spring, 6th, 7th, and 8th grade students test their knowledge at this annual social that raises funds for our youth ministry retreats and events. Snacks, fun, and facts abound! Past themes include Hollywood, Game Night, and Superheroes.

Luke 18 Weekend

This retreat welcomes 8th graders into the church by helping them experience God and His love. Through high-energy games, skits, songs, personal sharing, participation in the sacraments, prayer, and a series of talks given by high school students, the participants are encouraged to have fun and take one step deeper into their faith journey. The weekend offers the opportunity to experience God’s love on a more personal level and share that love with those around them. Well-trained high school students give talks and lead small groups, helping the participants find ways to welcome God into their everyday lives.

Steubenville Conference

Steubenville is a high-energy youth conference where thousands of teens are invited to encounter Jesus Christ through dynamic speakers, engaging music, the Sacraments, small group discussions, and fellowship with other teens. This event is held annually in July at Missouri State University in Springfield, MO.

Fall Retreat

Every fall we steal away for the weekend to make new friends, relax, and connect with God away from the busyness of everyday life! Each year the theme and focus changes, but it always includes time for talks, small groups, sacraments, and a bonfire. This annual retreat is held in November at High Hill Christian Camp.


For five days, teens spend the mornings serving at various sites in the St. Louis area followed by sharing a meal together. ACTS gives our youth a chance to see how the many nonprofits of our city work together to meet the needs of its residents. This annual event is held during the summer from 8:30 a.m.-1:00 p.m. Monday through Friday.


Throughout the school year, service opportunities are offered once a month on Saturdays at agencies across St. Louis City and St. Louis County. SERVE is not only a great way for students to earn service hours for their schools and clubs but also to build community and be Christ to others. Details for month-to-month projects can be found in the parish bulletin or on our website.